As a blogger, your writing skills are more important than your gender. Infact, your gender doesn't matter at all for deciding your website's or blog's traffic.
If your articles are shown in top search results on Google then it is a good thing for you. This will guarantee a high traffic to your website or blog. But if you write something that nobody wants to read, you may be wasting your time.
Let's understand this with an example. Suppose you write an article on topic "Blue mangoes". Now, when you search "blue mangoes" on Google, your articles will definitely come in top results. This is because there is no such thing as "blue mangoes". In this case, you will not get any benefit through this top ranking on Google because nobody will search about "blue mangoes" except you. So, topic of the article is of extreme importance.
Try to write what everyone wants to read. It is not about your likings, it's about people's likings. If you want to drive huge traffic to your website or blog, you must write on interesting topics. If you write on an interesting topic and that article appears in top results on Google, you will definitely get benefitted.
To know some ways of web promotion, you can check this link : http://www.techulator.com/resources/7454-Free-ways-promote-your-website-or-blog.aspx
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